We hope these stories, photos and aspects of our journey will give you a sense of the incredible love, nurturing, stability, and support your child will be given every day of their life.
Get to know us
Meet Kurt & Helen
I'm a proud Chicagoan, the oldest of five siblings in a close-knit family. Despite not having much growing up, we found joy in simple pleasures and spending time together. My interest in sports, math, science, business, and investing was fostered by my upbringing, especially by my business-minded mom who now runs our family business. Alongside my family, I've been blessed with incredible friends from different stages of my life, with whom I stay connected through regular catch-ups to discuss career, family, faith, and life. I love golf, art, traveling, and music, and hope to share these (and discover new) interests with our child as they grow older.
I grew up in a close-knit family of six that moved frequently, which created an extremely strong bond between us. Now, we cherish our visits, Sunday Zoom calls and daily chats that keep us connected. My mom and I shared a relationship that was known for its closeness. I have the best memories of our weekly breakfast outings and trips that we called OGs (only girls). My brothers and I were involved in sports from a young age. I went on to play college tennis, and health & fitness remain an important part of my life. My parents' commitment to church and family dinners will continue in our home, and I'm excited to introduce our little one to the joy that comes from spending time together as a family.
it all started when
We met in 2003 in grad school in Boston. Kurt says he met Helen at a party, while Helen first remembers him from a compliment he gave her while they were hanging out with friends in the Student Center on campus. Either way, it's been a lot of love, laughter, and fun travels ever since!
Our Life Ever Since
17 years & counting
The last 17 years have been a journey of growth, love, and faith through the joys of everyday life as well as supporting each other through life’s challenges. Now, we are eager to embark on this new chapter in our lives -- expanding our family through adoption.
Adoption is the story of our family
One of the main reasons we're so committed to the path of adoption is because Helen's younger twin brothers were adopted when they were two years old. We know the deep love that naturally develops when a family grows through adoption and can't wait to experience that with our own child. Our child will have an instant connection with his or her uncles and will have a shared experience with our entire family. We also have several friends who have adopted their kids and they've been so helpful and supportive during our journey. We're grateful that our child will know so many other adoptive families so they can experience that connection and feel even more secure in their own adoption story.
Our Why
We've waited a long time for this moment. In the beginning of our marriage we were focused on settling into married life and building our careers. Later we were focused on solidifying the foundation of our loving relationship, our faith and being there for each other and our families through all that life brings. Now, we are ready to share that love and expand it by growing our family through adoption. We've always known that we wanted to be parents and we've always wanted to do so on a strong foundation of faith, love and family, and we can't wait to provide that for a child. We want our child to be surrounded by as much love as possible and hope that you will remain a part of their life if you are open to it.
and THIS IS JUST THE BEGINNING of our story
Through it all, our bond has only grown stronger and we have learned so much that has shaped us into the couple we are today. Our hearts are open and we can’t wait to welcome a child into our lives and share all the love and joy that we have to give.
Our perspective on each other
When I met Helen, I knew my world had changed; her kindness and grace are unmatched. She's not just a great friend, sister, and daughter, but she also radiates love and light to everyone she meets. Her caring sensibility and strong values, rooted in her faith, make her not only an amazing partner but also someone I know will be a fantastic mom. Helen's unconditional love and support will guide our child through life's journey with warmth and compassion.
Kurt's unique blend of brilliance and charisma drew me to him from the start. Whether he's engaging everyone on a bus ride or dancing in the kitchen to Jay-Z, Afrobeats, or Stevie Wonder, Kurt's energy and charm are contagious. He's not just a financial wiz; he's also a thoughtful connector of people and a go-to for wise counsel. Kurt's love and energy extend to our relationship, where he surprises me with annual trips and plans family retreats for major decisions. I have no doubt he'll be an amazing dad, nurturing our child's mind and spirit with the same love and energy he devotes to us.
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